Nekopara Cosplay, Cat Maids, and the Secret to Happiness

Have you discovered the secret to happiness? I did. And I found it in a maid café. Let’s study kawaii Nekopara cosplay sets as we combine maids, cats, and cute waifus in our search for the meaning of life.

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Hyperbole and Hairballs

Happiness at a maid café? That statement stinks of hyperbole, even for a pro-cat girl website like J-List. Let me explain.

First, the happiness I’m talking about isn’t the fleeting joy a new anime figure brings. We can help you with plenty of that. But those moments are only ever a nice dopamine spike, and every spike drops before the plateau.

I’m also not talking about the joy you feel when you survey your collection of sparkling cast-off figures. The collection you scraped and saved for. The figures you spent hours hunting and scrupulously bargaining for. That same collection that’s now housed in the custom-built display case you designed. And maybe built. This is closer to the happiness we’re talking about. This joy has a plateau. You wrestled for it, and the collection stands in testimony to your hard work.

Maid Café Virgin to Cream Cake Connoisseur

My town (in J-List HQ’s prefecture of Gunma) had a small maid café — Kawaii Kissaten — with only three staff members. Our town was relatively quiet because it sat at the intersection of two train routes that led to more interesting cities, and the café never seemed busy.

Maybe that’s why I was reluctant to go in. What if there was some stigma attached to visiting maid cafés? It was quiet, so maybe only sleezy customers snuck in when everyone else was at work. As a teacher, would I be bringing dishonor on my school if I went in? Japan is full of these tiny cultural traps for unsuspecting foreigners. Maybe they served more than cream cakes and coffee.

But I was intrigued. I had to go in, so I did.

All Japanese stores are polite and welcoming as a rule. The difference might be in how they treat foreigners, but you’ll inevitably hear a loud “irasshaimase” welcoming you in. All three staff shouted this greeting, though I only saw one. She dressed in the most stereotypical maid’s outfit you could hope to find, with a long black skirt and white lacy apron. And the lacy headband, whatever you call it. I could tell the threat of having to speak English hung over her like an executioner’s blade, but she pushed on with a big smile and more heart than you’d expect from her slight frame.

The First Clue

And here’s the clue about happiness. What would you love doing so much that when it gets incredibly difficult, you’d still fight to do it?

My first visit ended after an okay cup of tea and overly creamy chocolate cake. Still, my first visit became a weekly ritual of tea, baked goods, and a steadily growing word count on a first novel. If you ever read it, I’m sure you’ll feel something of Kawaii Kissaten in its pages.

But it wasn’t the tea that brought me back. Give me a good Ceylon over Earl Grey any day. I came back because the staff loved helping people. They were all heart. They were happy. All the coffee house staff went out of their way to make their clients happy too (in a wholesome way, before your mind veers off into the gutter). They weren’t there to make money while hoping for something better to come along. Their work satisfied a deep need inside them, and that satisfaction was infectious. Their customers could feel the joy. Even an oddball foreigner could pick it up.

So, I guess, if you want to be happy, help people. Help people even if you’d have to scream “hello” at the top of your lungs when that scary obstacle (or tall foreigner) shows up, and you’d do what needs doing with every part of your being. No matter what.

After all, isn’t “lifelong service” basically another phrase for cat ownership?

Your Take-Home Treats Are Wrapped and Ready

Here’s a crazy coincidence for you. South Africa’s hard lockdown started on March 26, 2020, the same day Nekopara aired the final episode of its original anime run. Many US states started their lockdowns a few days earlier. Although we didn’t all endure enforced isolation by binging cute cat maids, you’ve got to appreciate the timely dose of moe.

You can find kawaii Nekopara merch on the J-List store. But remember, if you pet it, you house it.

So, how about you? Have you ever been to a maid café? Is it on your bucket list to go? Tell us in the comments.

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