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Peter Payne by Peter Payne
19 years ago
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Part of Peter’s Unified Theory of Japan is that America is a country of idealists while Japanese are generally pragmatists. In many areas of society, Americans seem to reach for the stars, trying to attain great goals like total equality between the sexes and different races, holding down taxes down while guiding democracy all over the world, including Iraq. Japanese, on the other hand, seem to have a national joshiki, a “common sense” that all Japanese tend to share, which tends towards more realistic goals. While there are laws against sexual discrimination or harassment in the workplace, the roles of men and women are more clearly defined in Japan. For a family to be happy, the husband should be the daikoku-bashira (lit. “big black pillar”) that supports the house financially, and so, the number of women who desire high-paying careers is much lower here than in the West. Kids should go to school to receive an education that makes them feel that they’re a part of the larger society, and so there is no homeschooling in Japan. The ultimate pragmatic slogan in Japan is one you can hear quite often: sho ga nai, or “it can’t be helped, so I guess I’ll just do nothing.” To be honest, it’s kind of refreshing living in a society that admits that there are things beyond its ability to change. What do you think?

Oh, and if you find you don’t have enough common sense, there’s a DS game to help you out. Just ten minutes a day!

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