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Japanese Buddhist attitudes about land, and ruminations on when I first arrived in Japan

Peter Payne by Peter Payne
20 years ago
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One big difference between Japan and America is the attitude people have towards land and personal mobility. In the U.S. it’s quite common for a person to move several times over the course of his life, to go to a region where jobs are better, move into a larger house as he moves up the ladder of life, or just make a new start in a new part of the country. Since houses are bought and sold regularly, it’s common for people with similar income levels to accumulate near each other, a mechanism that’s at work in every American community to some extent. The Japanese, however, are more likely to stay in the same place for their entire lives. The reason, it turns out, is related to Japan’s Buddhist culture: since families generally have an established ohaka (grave) where all family members will eventually be interred, the idea of permanently leaving that area is almost unthinkable — at the very least, when you died you’d be far from loved ones who wouldn’t come to visit your grave very often. Because of this desire to stay on the same land forever, differences in wealth naturally develop, and it’s not uncommon to see beautiful, newly constructed homes located next to shabby old buildings built decades ago.

A gaijin‘s first visit to Japan is a giddy time, and I remember my first days here very well. I woke up at the crack of dawn — jet lag will do that to you when going from East to West — and went out for a walk to see what I could see. After greeting an elderly woman, I bought some UCC canned coffee from a vending machine (which bowed to me, via a small screen), and marveled at a sign letting me know I was entering the village of Fujimi, which means “View of Fuji.” In the old days, supposedly, you could see Mt. Fuji from that village when the conditions were right, despite the fact that Fuji-san is 150 km to the south of us. I distinctly remember being amazed at the design of everyday objects here, such as the toilets with hand faucets on top (allowing you to wash your hands with the clean water that flows into the tank after you flush), or with the little slit in butter containers that allows you to keep a butter knife inside but still get the lid on. I was unlike most foreigners in Japan because I’d studied the language for four years at SDSU before coming here, so I could basically get around town and talk to people (and put my foot in my mouth really, really well). Still, I remember being extremely frustrated at not knowing vocabulary words for the things I wanted to say, so I attacked the language ravenously, reading manga and studying until I could express myself the way I wanted.

Our big news today is that Enzai – Falsely Accused, the very first yaoi game to be released in English, is in stock and shipping now. For years we’ve been attending anime conventions and yaoi fans have been begging us to bring out BL games in English. Their passion won us over, and now we have the first PC dating-sim for yaoi fans in stock and ready for immediate order. The game is great, too, an innovative story based in Napoleonic France in which you assume the role of Guys, a youth accused of a murder he didn’t commit. In prison for life, he must accumulate various forms of evidence to clear his name, aided and hindered by the various characters in the game. If you like Japan’s unique yaoi themes, we hope you’ll support us and get the game!

Since J-List is physically based in Japan, we’re able to bring you amazing toys and other items unavailable anywhere else. One of the most popular products we’ve ever sold were the Furuta Star Trek ship collection, incredibly detailed ships from the Star Trek series made for the Japanese market. We’re happy to report the newest Furuta Trek series is in stock: Star Trek Federation & Alien Ships Collection Beta (meaning set 2; Alpha was set 1). The series features the original refit Enterprise from Star Trek: the Motion Picture, the U.S.S. Pasteur and Rio Grande, a Kazon Raider, and the long-awaited Borg Cube. We usually buy these toys by the truckload, but this time we were only able to get our hands on a few cartons, so we recommend serious Trek fans to snap these up ASAP. We also have the Alpha series in stock.

Congratulations to our own Jun, the guy who handles all J-List snacks, gum and traditional products, whose baby girl was born yesterday. Little Renka was 3144 grams. Mother and daughter are doing fine.

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