Is 'Living With a Quirky Girl' The Next Big Anime Genre?

I love the way anime genres evolve and change over time. For example, the Slice of Life genre eventually morphed into Cute Girls Doing Cute Things, which gave birth to the related Cute Girls Get A New Hobby category. One new genre I’ve been watching could be called Living With a Quirky Girl, about a weird or unique girl who lives with a male protagonist and is dependent on him in various ways. Let’s explore this fun genre together!

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I’m fascinated by how anime genres evolve over time, as popular story ideas get copied and improved upon by other creators. The classic Super Robot era upgraded to the Real Robot genre with Mobile Suit Gundam, adding gritty politics and darker, more realistic stories. This eventually led to Psychological Mecha stories like Evangelion or SSSS.Gridman. The basic isekai concept eventually morphed into Power Fantasy Isekai stories about being an OP hero in another world. Before long we got comfortable stories about characters using their knowledge of everyday topics like farming or cooking to build a “slow life” in a fantasy world.

Why Are Anime Series About Living With a Quirky Girl a Thing?

The Living With a Quirky Girl genre seems to be on the rise. In these stories, a seemingly ordinary Japanese protagonist finds himself living with an eccentric or unusual girl. This girl often comes from a supernatural or similar background and relies on him for support. Some details of the genre include:

It’s a “dependent fantasy” featuring a girl who can’t fend for herself without the MC’s help. The man is super reliable and able to provide emotional support and safety for the girl in her strange situation.
The man acts as her guide to our world (Keiichi and Belldandy in Ah! My Goddess). Sometimes he has to teach her basic concepts, like the importance of wearing pantsu (Chii from Chobits).
Sometimes there’s a supernatural element (Onegai Teacher, Helpful Fox Senko-san). Part of the fun of this setup is that the main character is privy to a secret no one else knows.
Comedy comes from various misunderstandings, like the various dragons living with Kobayashi.
Often, the genre starts out with the main character living with a single fish-out-of-water girl and acting as her guide. More girls join the series over time until it becomes a harem (One Room Tenshi, Cat Planet Cuties).

Let’s look at two examples of the Living With a Quirky Girl anime genre from the current anime season!

Living With a Quirky Girl Example #1: I’m Living with an Otaku NEET Kunoichi!?

Tsukasa is a normal Japanese salaryman who gets attacked by an evil demon. At the last minute, he’s saved by a flamboyant kunoichi, a female ninja, named Shizuri. But Shizuri isn’t just any female ninja…she’s an otaku and NEET who’s addicted to playing video games all night. If Tsukasa will let her live with him, she’ll defend him from the demons…and give us occasional fan service moments.

And so, we get an odd story of a normal Japanese guy with good cooking skills who becomes a “house husband” to a weird otaku girl who’s dependent on him for everything. We hope for romance between them but soon learn that ninjas are forbidden to fall in love with their masters, on pain of banishment. What will happen between Tsukasa and his NEET ninja protector?

Example Number 2: Welcome to Japan, Ms. Elf!

Then we have the other example of the Living With a Quirky Girl anime genre this season, Nihon e Youkoso Elf-san, or Welcome to Japan, Ms. Elf! It’s the story of a normal Japanese salaryman (are you noticing a trend?) named Kazuhiro with a special skill: he can visit a fantasy isekai world in his dreams when he sleeps. In his fantasy world, he goes on adventures and is occasionally killed, causing him to wake up back in his bed in our universe. One day Kazuhiro and his elf friend Mariabelle are adventuring together when they get flamed by a dragon. Kazuhiro tries to protect Mariabelle with his body…causing her to teleport to our world.

Welcome To Japan, Ms. Elf! uses popular tropes like elves and isekai to tell a story about foreigners who come to Japan and are overjoyed with what they find here. This is fitting since Japan is experiencing a huge tourist boom right now. It’s nice to see Japan through the eyes of Mariabelle, who is as happy to be visiting Asakusa or Tokyo Skytree as any of us would be.

Wish Fulfillment Isn’t a Bad Thing

But wait. Isn’t it bad watching shallow “wish fulfillment” anime that panders to fans, giving them exactly what they want without challenging them? Couldn’t someone say, “This is why I hate anime. It appeals to the male [or female] fantasy”?

I find this criticism of wish fulfillment very silly. After all, all entertainment is created to fulfill the desires of its audience, whether it’s the endless explosions in an action movie or deeply emotional payoffs in a good romance anime. Dismissing wish fulfillment as shallow oversimplifies the purpose of storytelling itself.

Moreover, wish fulfillment isn’t just about pandering to male fantasies with harems or panty shots. For every romantic anime aimed at boys, like my beloved The Dangers in My Heart, there are equally compelling girl-focused series. Classics like Fruits Basket, Uta no Prince-sama, and My Next Life as a Villainess: All Routes Lead to Doom! are three great examples.

Wish fulfillment isn’t inherently shallow. It’s a way for creators to give their readers/viewers what they want in a package that’s enjoyable to all.

Thanks for reading this post about the Living With a Quirky Girl anime genre, and the I’m Living with an Otaku NEET Kunoichi and Welcome to Japan, Ms. Elf! series. What do you think about these two shows? What are your thoughts about the genre of a girl living with a trustworthy, reliable male protagonist? Tell us in the comment below!

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