If you’ve paid attention while watching Japanese anime or, ahem, other videos in Japanese, you’ve might have noticed the word ne. This is an interesting Japanese grammatical particle that usually goes on the ends of sentences and serves several purposes, mostly related to asking for confirmation of information or agreement with an opinion. Here are two examples:
アイスコーヒー二つですね? Aisu kohii futatsu desu ne?
You’d like two glasses of iced coffee, is that right?
今日は、暑いですね。Kyou wa atsui desu ne.
It’s hot today, isn’t it?
Other functions of the all-purpose Japanese particle ne include softening a sentence so its meaning it less harsh (Chotto furorimashita ne. You’ve gained a little weight, haven’t you?); emphasizing what you want to say (Kondo chanto kiite kudasai, ne. Please listen closely next time, alright?); working as a pause in sentences, like “um” in English; and to get the attention of the listener before speaking. Girls use ne more often than men and with a higher intonation, so males should use the word with caution lest they appear effeminate, although guys speaking Japanese will mess this up all the time (it’s part of our charm). Even if you don’t speak any Japanese at all, just memorize the phrase ne! and pull it out whenever a Japanese person says something you want to agree with, and watch the look of surprise on their face.
Kawaii, ne?